Everyone wants to be included in this season’s holiday fun, but some may not be as welcome. Let’s explore how to politely enforce pet rules and boundaries with guests this holiday season.
Communication is your superpower. When guests come to your home this holiday season, some may want to bring Snoopy and Garfield. Be sure to communicate pet rules and boundaries clearly and with positive language. This not only sets expectations but also empowers you as the host. Provide explanations without over-apologizing. Be assertive, but do not yell. Stay consistent with your language and regulations, especially if you have pets. Set clear rules for guest animals interacting with your animals. Provide a backup plan if things do not go smoothly, such as keeping pets separated.
Create visual and physical cues. Sometimes, people are more visual learners. Create some door signs to remind guests to close the door behind them. Have fun with the signs and write, “Please close the door behind you—cat escape artist alert!” Define limits within the house with baby gates, crates or outdoor play areas.
Sensory overload. Preparing for the unexpected helps pets stay calm and happy during holiday chaos. However, when it gets to be too much, have a plan for safely removing pets if they seem overwhelmed. Take them for a walk or to a quieter area of the house. Always have a go-to sanctuary for animals. This space must be a quiet room with toys, a comfy bed and soothing music. Use calming sprays or pheromones to ease stress. Having these strategies in place makes you feel more at ease and prepared for any situation.
Navigate awkward holiday scenarios with grace. If you have holiday guests who are not pet lovers, keep the tension during the holiday visit at bay. Understand your guest’s perspective as to why they do not like animals. They might have allergies, phobias or simply not a pet person. Talk with guests before they come, then prepare the home with pet-free zones for guests uncomfortable around animals. Clean thoroughly to minimize allergens before their visit. Avoid forced interactions and let guests choose their comfort level. Respect their boundaries and share expectations with guests (e.g., no teasing pets) or offer alternatives like having pets stay with a trusted sitter during the busiest moments. Suggest short visits if guest discomfort is severe. Respecting their boundaries makes them feel more comfortable and welcome in your home.
Keep the rodents away. We all love to see cute wildlife outside, but we do not want to invite them to the holiday dinner! Be sure not to have any of these unexpected animals inside, creating havoc. You do not want to end up in a Clark Griswold situation, so always check your tree before bringing it inside! Most rodents do not like peppermint or cinnamon oils, so apply those oils to potential entry points or spray around the house. Identify signs of pest activity early, such as droppings or visible damage. Stay vigilant of any potential pest issues and address them promptly.
Amidst the holiday chaos, remember to stay calm and embrace the warmth of hugs and wet kisses from our furry friends. After all, the holidays are about creating a harmonious atmosphere for all, pets included!
